Is insecurity human nature? Sometimes it seems like it. As human beings, we often wonder what it is about us that sets us apart from the next person. And when we can’t come up with an answer, it sends us into a spiral of self-doubt (or worse) self-loathing.
“Nothing interesting ever happens to me.”
“I don’t have any special talents.”
“I don’t know what I have to offer.”
Sound familiar? If it does, take a minute to put aside your humble filter. Be incredibly honest with yourself. No two humans are alike, which means you are different from any other person. It’s important to recognize what sets you apart, especially if you’re trying to brand yourself in a certain way (as I am in applying for jobs).
You don’t necessarily have to think of things you do. Think of things you’ve done. Have you gone somewhere that changed you? Been through an experience that shaped who you are today? These are talking points--things you need to take pride in. So what if today I feel like the most remarkable thing about me is my ability to dislocate my shoulder? It’s something that makes me different, and I cherish it.
So come up with a list of things that set you apart. Surprise yourself.
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